The Red Revolution

The Red Revolution: How One Lipstick Can Change Everything.

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The Infected Heart: Love, Lust, and the Lingering Smell of Someone Else

Forgiveness is meant to be cleansing. So why does intimacy still feel contaminated? An essay on betrayal, bodies, and the ghosts we invite back into bed.

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From Guilty Secret to Wellness Essential

Female pleasure has long been treated as optional. Vibrators disagree — firmly, efficiently, and without needing emotional reassurance.

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Is Timing Everything?

A story of grief, betrayal, and rebuilding when life forgets to pause.

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Burn, Baby, Burn

You’re not spiralling — you’re glowing. How scented candles turn existential dread into a curated moment of calm.

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The Things I Carry

A guided tour of the small objects that help me stay soft, sane and upright — even on days when I’d rather crawl back into bed and start again tomorrow.

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How your email finds me

From crying in the office bathroom to answering emails through emotional devastation, we’ve normalised working through heartbreak.

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It's not you, it's the moon

Tarot Cards Before and After the Breakup by a woman who definitely shuffled three times and still got The Tower

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What Happened Before the 14:27 to Euston

A Quiet Moment in Stockport, miniature wines, heartbreak, and Molly-Mae

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The Story Behind Cherish Yourself

This space was created in honour of my nana, shaped by grief and heartbreak, and guided by the belief that self-care isn’t indulgent — it’s essential.

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Unstoppable Shoes

From stilettos to stomper boots, the right pair of shoes doesn’t just change your outfit—it changes your posture, your mood, and the way you move through the world.

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Learning to Live Again, One Dog Walk at a Time

In the quiet aftermath of a breakup, caring for someone else — even briefly — became a way back to myself.

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On Choosing Joy (and Really Good Accessories)

Accessories that don’t fix everything — but do remind you that you’re allowed to enjoy yourself, even now.

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Lined in Confidence

From bathroom mirrors to global movements, the feline flick traces a lineage of bold women who understood that sometimes power begins with drawing a line.

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In Defence of the
45-Minute Voice Note

From freelance chaos to baby schedules and heartbreak survival, the long voice note has quietly become the most tender way women hold each other together.

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Throwing Shade

They don’t ask questions, they don’t judge, and they let you cry on public transport with dignity.

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The Woman Who Taught Me to Cherish Myself

A tribute to my nana — a woman who believed self-care was essential, love was worth the risk, and cherishing yourself inside and out was how you survived life.

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The Spice Girls, My First Permission Slip

When five women arrived loudly, joyfully and together, they gave a generation of girls permission to take up space — and to never do it alone.

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The Emotional Weather Forecast Was Accurate

Crying is inevitable. Smudging doesn’t have to be. Why choosing makeup that stays put can be a small, practical form of self-respect on hard days.

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No Longer Asking, Finally Living

After the devastation comes an unexpected freedom: no compromises, no negotiations, no asking for approval. Just the unnerving, exhilarating task of building a life entirely on your own terms.

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Turn It Up

Music doesn’t just comfort us — it emboldens us, reminding us who we are, where we’ve been, and why we’re allowed to feel everything loudly.

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Why We Keep Going Back to What Comforts Us

When everything feels untethered, we reach for what’s familiar. Not because we’re afraid of change, but because safety is where resilience begins.

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Cuddle Dressing: Fashion for the Emotionally Bruised

When life hurts, get dressed like a duvet with boundaries. Quilted coats, padded skirts and scarves designed to keep you warm, safe and gently facing the world again.

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All opinions and observations are written reflections that are personal and subjective, not factual claims or advice. If you are struggling with your mental health, please seek support from a doctor or qualified health professional.

The Red Revolution

The Infected Heart: Love, Lust, and the Lingering Smell of Someone Else

From Guilty Secret to Wellness Essential

Is Timing Everything?

Burn, Baby, Burn

The Things I Carry

How your email finds me

It's not you, it's the moon

What Happened Before the 14:27 to Euston

The Story Behind Cherish Yourself

Shop the Beauty Edit

Unstoppable Shoes

Learning to Live Again, One Dog Walk at a Time

On Choosing Joy (and Really Good Accessories)

Lined in Confidence

In Defence of the
45-Minute Voice Note

Throwing Shade

The Woman Who Taught Me to Cherish Myself

The Spice Girls, My First Permission Slip

The Emotional Weather Forecast Was Accurate

No Longer Asking, Finally Living

Turn It Up

Why We Keep Going Back to What Comforts Us

Cuddle Dressing: Fashion for the Emotionally Bruised

Shop the Fashion Edit

Follow us on Instagram @CherishYourselfUK

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